Connie Morgan
Connie Morgan
Teacher and Missionary Who Grew Up in Africa
My advice to you is to work hard and study hard. Discover what you’re good at. Each person has a gift, something you’re good at. Use your imagination. Be physically active. Try going for a week without technology. Enjoy people. Listen to your teachers. Value your family.
Connie Morgan
Teacher and Missionary Who Grew Up in Africa
My name is Connie Morgan. I was born June 19, 1951. I am honored to be here with you to share my life story. Sixteen years of my life was spent in Africa, a country I love. My parents already had three girls, and then they had identical twin girls. One of them was me.
We had a lot of fun being twins. Our mom dressed us the same until we were twelve years old. The teachers would try to keep us straight. “Which one is Connie? Which one is Kathy?”. As we got older, we mixed up when we went out on dates. Even today you probably wouldn’t be able to tell us a part.
In eighth grade we moved to Washington State. My dad was a Lutheran minister. It was an okay move because I had my twin sister. College was different. My sister and I decided to go to different colleges. That was very hard. In the summer of my college years, I had fun working as a camp counselor. I graduated with degrees in Psychology and Education. I did some office work and then began tutoring refugees from Cambodia.
I got bored with my life and had an opportunity to go to India to be a volunteer at an international school. I spent one year in India. I traveled to interesting places like the Taj Mahal and went hiking in the Himalayan Mountains. It was a wonderful experience. I came back to the United States wondering what I would do next.
I soon met my husband and it was love at first sight. We married in March, 1981. We decided that we would do something that would help other people in a different part of the world. We signed up to do church ministry in Kenya, East Africa in September, 1983. The sad part about our decision was saying goodbye to our family and friends and of course my twin sister.
Our wonderful adventure began. I learned Swahili, the language of east Africa. We moved to a village and into a not-so-fancy house. It had no electricity, no trees, a toilet, but not a flush toilet. It had bars on [the windows] but not screens and glass. We put up screens because the mosquitoes would come in. They were our enemies.
We had a baby girl, Christina. She went to a wonderful school in Kenya, loved to climb trees, and had many friends. We had one of the few cars in the village. Sometimes, in the middle of the night, my husband would have to take someone to the hospital. We became good friends with many people. We were part of a community development team. We had meetings with them to see how they could make their lives better. We tried to help them with health care, clean water, and babies’ immunizations.
One exciting thing about Kenya is the animals. We could see many animals in their natural habitat. My favorite animal was the elephant. They are so intelligent and play as a family. My favorite food of Africa was the fruit, especially the mango and I loved the beautiful beaches of the Indian ocean, the palm trees, and flowers. I loved the people. They are so welcoming. If they have food, they want to share it with you.
They taught me the importance of family and extended family. Happiness is found in people not in the things you have. When our daughter was in seventh grade, we decided it would be better to come back to the United States so she could go to high school here. We wanted her to know this country and her family.
It took about a year to adjust to our life in Minnesota. My husband teaches college. I was hired in Columbia Heights ten years ago. My husband has been back to Kenya several times, but I’ve been back only once.
We Had Fun Growing Up
Honoring Connie Morgan
We Had Fun Growing Up
(Honoring Connie Morgan)
(Chorus)
We had fun growing up
There comes a time sure enough
When you know that you must go far away and leave home
Even though we were best friends
Had to separate in the end
But that don’t mean that we will ever part
I was born into a
Family with five girls
With a mom - with a dad
Who wished they had a boy
But instead they had twin girls
And I, one of them
Identical twins that you
Could not tell apart
And sometimes on a date
We would mix it up
Who was who when we went out
The boys could never tell
And neither could the teachers
Who tried to keep us straight
But like the boys no one could
Tell us apart
(Chorus)
After I got my degree
Tutored refugees (9)
Fell in love and got married
And traveled overseas
To Kenya East Africa
Where they speak Swahili (15)
“Habari za jioni?
Asanteni.”
(Chorus)
Moved into this fancy house
Ha-ha! Not really
painted it and fixed it up
With flowers & trees
Without electricity
Had lanterns with kerosene
With toilets that wouldn’t flush
That was so exciting!
(Chorus)
Without screens on the windows
Hated those darn mosquitoes
Millipedes, spiders,
Tarantulas
Plus we had an SUV
One of a few in the village
When someone needed help
They would say, “Hodi!”
(Chorus)
Most of all Christina
Our baby girl she was born
For 16 years we lived there
In East Africa
She loved it there, didn’t want to leave
Yet we missed our family
Back at home where we would be
Near family we love
(Chorus)
If I had one dream come true
When I retire, I want to
Live with my twin sister
Together again!
It’s not how much you have
That makes you happy
Take your watch put it away
Enjoy the time you have
(Chorus)
Words & music by Larry Long with Amber Young’s 4th Grade, Highland Elementary School, Columbia Heights, Minnesota.
Larry Long 2009 / BMI